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This week (March 11-17) is National Brain Injury
Awareness Week. The Mercury is profiling some of the people affected
by this disability and looking at the work being done to help
them in our area.
Grahame Hargreaves of Wigston was a keen road-racing cyclist.
He had left early one July Sunday in 1997 for a 100-mile race
in the Kettering area. His wife Betty takes up the story.
"At about 8.30am that morning the police arrived to say Grahame
had had been knocked off his bike by a large lorry and was in
the Kettering Hospital. We were told he had multiple injuries,
including serious damage to his skull. The next day they discovered
serious brain damage. He was moved to the Queens Medical Centre,
Nottingham for emergency surgery, and eventually, to save his
life, it was decided to remove the damaged part of the brain.
We were told that this would result in some form of disability
but no one could predict how much.
After 3 weeks Grahame was transferred to the LRI. For the first
few days he was sedated because he was trying to get out of bed;
he was very confused. As the weeks passed, Grahame started to
do things for himself. His speech was beginning to come back,
but it made no sense at all. It was made-up words and he just
couldn't understand what people were saying to him. It was so
hard for everyone who visited him. He would recognise people but
could not remember the names even of close family members.
By October he was in the General Hospital, where he received physiotherapy
and speech therapy, but he became very depressed; his speech wasn't
getting any better and he was difficult to handle. In December
he was allowed home for a few hours each week and then for weekends.
During his time in the General we met Sylvia Davis from Headway,
who told us how his rehabilitation might be helped.
He was discharged after 8 months in hospital, but he had lost
most of his independence. After being home for a short while he
started going to Headway 2 days a week, which he really enjoys
and with the help of the staff there he's made some lovely things
and done some nice paintings. His speech has improved but even
four and a half years since the accident he still has difficulty
understanding."
Grahame didn't like wearing a cycling helmet. On that fateful
day it was still in its box.
Headway is an independent organisation, helping victims of brain
injury and their families. It relies on voluntary donations to
fund many of its services.
You can find out more by email by
clicking here.
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